I debated how to carry my “new things” habit into 2018. I want to keep doing new things and making my life bigger, but I want to be a bit more focused and ensure that I spend my time on activities that enrich my life instead of just checking a box on a to-do list I set for myself.
I thought about not setting a limit and just continuing to do new things and share them with the world and see how far I get. But I could see myself getting lazy with no goal at all. I may have changed the set point of my existence, but have to keep at it or I could slip right back.
My college friend Jennifer, suggested that I do 18 things in 2018. Not just because it is 2018, but because 18 has a special meaning in Judaism. She didn’t tell me what that meaning was (and although I am half Jewish, I didn’t know) but I was intrigued.
I did a little research and learned that 18 is universally synonymous with the Hebrew word Chai and that Chai is the Hebrew word for life! (The Jewish toast L’Chaim! means “to life!) Chai does not refer to just any life. Judaism emphasizes the importance of living a good, ethical life and enjoying this time we have on earth. That is EXACTLY what I am trying to do more of with my new things habit. Especially with the additional twist, I want to add that will help me focus on quality over quantity.
Someone recently asked me what I need more of in my life. I came up with these five things which are my intentions for 2018. (I think you are only supposed to have one intention, but I have a lot I want to accomplish!)
So I have decided to do at least 18 new things in 2018 and that each new thing has to involve at least ONE of my five intentions for the year. This will help me stay focused on what I want my life to be with an achievable goal that will still require some work. (If I find a new thing that covers all five, then I will win the life lottery for sure!)
I kicked things off on New Years Day with a helicopter tour of NYC. This was a gift given to me by my former team when I left my old job. They gave it to me because they knew I was doing 100 new things in 2017. It was a very thoughtful gift, but they were not aware that I get motion sickness pretty easily.
This was originally going to be my #100 of 2017 but I didn’t schedule it in time, so it ended up being #1 for 2018. Not only was I afraid of getting sick, I was also afraid of dying (and it was about 14 degrees F that day so for sure we would have died if we landed in the river.) As I feared, I was nauseous the whole time (which was thankfully only 20 minutes) and could not wait for it to end. But I lived and I didn’t throw up all over the pilot. I did get some great pictures and I actually looked like I was having fun! I guess the whole adventure was kind of fun. Especially in hindsight, now that it is over (and I never plan to do it again). So this one counts as fun (barely!)
Thanks, Jennifer for not only for inspiring three new things in 2017 (#2, #64, #99), but for coming up with a fabulous symbolic goal for 2018!! I plan to keep writing about my new things, and life in general, so follow along and join me on my journey this year…